No! Do NOT teabag!: How to get along with roommates - Part 2

You’re probably wondering about the title of this blog post, since the first part of it had absolutely nothing to do with teabagging, right? Well read on, but first observe:

Hat tip to G4TV for posting this originally.

Now read.
There was a time in my life when I was an RA. It was a glorious time. I dealt with parents who couldn’t let their kids grow up, kids who couldn’t let go of their “baby blankets”, and crazy, freedom starved freshmen, whose sole goal for coming to college was to unleash hell on all our heads… ah, a glorious time it was indeed. During this time I heard more roommate complaints than I’d heard my whole life prior to that time, and my whole life since. I figured that since I learnt a lot of what I know about how to deal with people as an RA, it would be a good idea to give some pointers on what not to do to roommates, from the perspective of an RA:

1.
It’s generally not a great idea to try to video tape your roommate and his girlfriend trying to have sex. No, really it’s not. If they both (because guys can sometimes be stupid)haven’t given your permission to play Walt Disney with their sex life, then it’s probably not a good idea to try. Believe me, I’ve had people get the crap beaten out of them for trying that…not to mention a really sad roommate break up.

2.
Do not get stoned and eat all your roommates groceries. I thought most people would have the sense to figure out that this wasn’t a good idea…that was before I became an RA. Granted, this particular move didn’t result in any teeth getting knocked out, but it definitely contributed to an untimely demise of the roommate relationship.

3.
DO NOT try to put the moves on your roommates girlfriend AND then beg her not to tell him when she rejects you! This particular scenario is dumb on a couple of levels. First, you ideally should have enough common sense to NOT to hit on a girl who is already dating your roommate. NOT just because it’s a dumbass thing to do, but also because she probably hangs out in your room a lot with your roommate (and sometimes you’re there)– it’s kinda gross…almost like incest. Second, if you managed to get past the incest thing and actually got with her, wouldn’t you feel wierd taking seconds? I mean, she just left your roommate for you!!!!

Anyway, if she said ‘no’ to your advances, at least be a man an DON’T beg her not to report you! You should have had the good sense to stay away in the first place ,and since you didn’t, deal with what you’ve got coming!

4.
It’s hard to type this next one up without laughing a lot…Do not masturbate with your roommate in the room. Look, I’m a guy and can’t really speak for women, but I know guys like to choke the chicken sometimes. It’s natural. What’s not natural however is for you to do it when your roommate is sharing a prison cell sized room with you! I’ve seen two roommate agreements go down that way. Nuff said on that issue.

5.
ABSOLUTELY DO NOT EVER, EVER, EVER TEABAG YOUR ROOMMATE!!!!!! Look, I’ve seen love seats fly through glass doors because someone thought it was a grand idea to put their nuts across the bridge of another person’s nose. NOT a good idea! If you ever feel the urge to teabag someone, get two lipton teabags from the kitchen, dip them in warm water and put them on that persons face. You could technically call that teabagging, you won’t get the taste slapped out of your mouth- or worse- and you can get a few good giggles. Best of all, you wont have a roommate break up.

 
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CNN, your daily source of useless News!

If any other media outlet reported on this, I probably wouldn’t waste my time chewing them out. But when CNN publishes a story about someone calling another person “sweetie” (read it here), and attempts to pass it as “serious” news, I begin to wonder what the hell is going on?! With all the catastrophes going on around the world, with all the wars, natural disasters, falling cranes in NYC, police abuse of power, racism, and the ever worsening economic situation of this country, CNN finds the time to go after Barack Obama for calling someone sweety!

Now, I understand that some may find that a little derogatory, and I can accept that– though I don’t think it is. Many people who commented on that article said they had the same habit– and seriously, who hasn’t slipped up and called someone they shouldn’t have honey, hon, babe, sweetie, darling etc. before? My point is, It might not be right, but it happens UNINTENTIONALLY! AND he apologized!

And WHAT in the world is wrong with the people who use this as a basis on whether or not to vote for him?! I thought we had thinking people in this country. If you don’t want to vote for him, base it on his policies damnit, and not on the fact that he called some lady sweetie!

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Stupid! Stupid! Stupid!!

Just read this and here’s what I think:

If the pilot of this plane is really that dumb, he SHOULDN’T be flying the plane in the first place! This whole thing might have been a set-up by the passenger and his “friend” who works for jetblue (or not), but that’s not the point. The point is that the pilot should have had more sense, and controlled his flight attendant, and asked them to remain seated in the jump seat– after all, they had already agreed to let the passenger have the other seat– instead of bullying him into the toilet. At the very least, he could have offered him the jump seat as opposed to the toilet!

Besides how dumb the pilot is, I feel bad for jetblue for having such poor staff training. Please leave your comments.

Amendment to “Stab-In-The-Dark-Innovation: Plausible?”

So, soon after I made my last post “Stab-In-The-Dark-Innovation: Plausible?”, I recieved and e-mail from Mr. Joachim Breitner letting me know he had responded to a comment I left after I read his blog Nomeata’s Mind Shares.

After reading his respose, I realized that I probably wasn’t too clear about what I said, so I replied to his response. I posted his response and my response below to help you understand better. You can find another one of his blogs here: http://planet.openghana.org/

Joachim Breitner:

Hi Papa,

I wasn’t there for the money (although it was nice to get it, of course), but I went in the spirit of a volunteer – so I went when I felt that it would fail.

Nevertheless I think the trip would have been worth it for SOSHGIC if it had been used properly. Some of the skills I hoped to teach to the kids were rare in Ghana and valuable everywhere else and would have benefitted them.

Ah, and I just find your blog entry at http://pbaffour.wordpress.com/2008/05/14/stab-in-the-dark-innovation-plausible/
and it has a slightly different tone than your comment here :-), and I agree with what you said there. Please note though that it wasn’t really missing research that caused the failure, but missing internal agreement or even communication.

And BTW, I wasn’t played “a lot” for the standards of a German university student, but it wasn’t cheap for a Ghanian school either.

Papa (Me):

Hi Joachim, thanks for getting back to me. And thanks for seeking out my blog too. I’m really sorry if it sounded a little “stiff” and cold– I can assure you it wasn’t aimed at you. The point I was trying to make in the blog (which I think I need to clean up a bit more) was that SOSHGIC did not do the research THEY needed before deciding that they needed someone to teach Linux. I’ve looked through your blog, so I know you’re very competent in your area of expertise, so again, I do NOT blame you at all for wanting to leave. Rather, I blame SOSHGIC for not taking the time to do the research into how to make sure the students took full advantage of your skills, BEFORE asking you to come in. I hope this clarfies my point.

Also, I agree with you, you probably were not paid “a lot” by German high school standard. I’ll make an amendment to my posting.

Again thanks for going out and trying to help. I am in NY and I work for a non-profit, so I fully understand the heart of a volunteer. Thank you and stay blessed.

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Stab-In-The-Dark-Innovation: Plausible?

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I love my high school…It’s LARGELY responsible for the person I am today and I will forever be greatful to everyone involved in making that experience happen. AND because I love my school so much, I just had to write this blog post to help it do better. I look forward to some interesting comments.

I just read a little blog post by a guy who was hired by my high school to teach Linux. You can go here to read it if you’re interested. Anyway, this post kinda got under my skin a little bit and got me thinking: why would they do that? Why would they find a guy from Germany and give him money (a lot, i’m sure), pay for shipping/ freight and housing, to come teach Linux? The only logical conclusion was that he would be providing an invaluable service that merited all the expenses. However, after reading the blog to the end (and still being in touch with my high school), I realize this Linux program bore no fruit! My brother just graduated and doesn’t know the first thing about Linux. Another brother is still there, and hasn’t mentioned Linux to me (I’ll ask him about it).

I am a HUGE fan of innovation and creativity– how couldn’t I be after being a business major at Whittier College and studying under Dr. Jeff Decker ? But I’m can not, with any logic, business or otherwise, support innovation wich isn’t backed by research. And it seems that this is exactly what happened in this case. According to the posting, there was no interest– absolutly NONE– in the Linux initiative, thus leading this guy to resign. Which only means, the executives who hired this guy didn’t do their homework before making that decision– or they made a decision because it sounded “cool”, not because it would actually do something for the students.

See, the thing that gets to me is that they wasted money on this guy (who by the way I think is an amazing person for resigning– he could have stayed on an kept taking the money) without first assessing what exactly they needed Linux for or if there would be some interest in it. At the very least, they could have made Linux a required part of the Computer Science course in SOS if they were going to spend all this money on this Linux guy. If his primary purpose there was to implement a system (as opposed to teach), then they should have instituted mandatory hours during the week, when all staff and students went to learn Linux.

Anyway, my whole rant aside, I know that the people who run SOS HGIC are some of the smartest I ever met (yes, I really believe that), so they must have has some good reason to hire this guy. I’d really like to read some comments from people who have any idea what this thing was all about.

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No! Do NOT teabag!: How to get along with roommates - Part 1

From an early age, I was lucky enough to have had roommates. My first roommates were my parents, as a baby. Then my sister was my roommate for a while. Then my two younger brothers. Then I went to my first boarding school and had about 50 roommates (Prempeh College, GH). I later changed high schools (still boarding though), and had between 3 and 1 roommates at SOS-HGIC. Then I flew to CA and had another roommate in at Whittier College. Oh, and during my time in college I lived in the Lancer Society frat house for about 8 months. AND today, I live in Jerset City with 3 roommates who all happen to be classmates of mine from high school. Impressive qualifications huh? Anyway, after years of hearing about (and actually experiencing) people’s roommate drama, I decided it might be a good idea to put some of my thoughts down on how I’ve managed to survive with all my roommates to date, and also what NOT to do to your roommates.

DISCLAIMER: The guys I live with right now are like my brothers (i’ve known them for over 10 years), so not everything that works for us might work for you.

Bitchin and Moaning
I would attribute most of my success in my roommate relations to the fact that I don’t take things too seriously. For example, if on occasion my roommate was a little loud, I’d buy ear plugs or tell him to pipe down a notch. I’d tell him once. And then remind him at looong intervals. In contrast, I’ve seen people bitch and moan, and harp tirelessly everytime a door slammed shut. Now, if your roommate is the kind whose headboard keeps making loud, rhythmic contact with the wall you share, due to his incessant extracurricular activities, then yes, of course talk to him seriously about it. But if he inadvertently slams a door every now and again, I wouldn’t advice you to nitpick– it will only breed contempt.

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Me T-Mobile wing - Part 2

Issue 2 - The Java e-mail application isn’t working

The my last blog about my TMO Wing phone, I ranted about how I went on a holy grail quest to find a way to make the e-mail application that comes with the phone to work. And I found the answer and brought it to you! Today, I’m going to rant a little about another e-mail related problem with my TMO wing.

Most if not all of you have heard about GMAIL going mobile with a Java based app for your wm6 phone (other requirements apply– see here). If not, just google it and it should come up–and here’s a link that downloads the app directly to your phone, gmail.com/app. Just enter it into your phone browser. The problem with this mobile app though is that it doesn’t work…well, not for me anyway, and a couple hundred (if not thousand) other people as I’ve discovered. See, just like I did with the problem before, i’ve been to internet heaven and hell, trying to find a solution to this problem, but this problem is a little different– it seems this app worked for some people right out of the box, whilst others just can’t seem to get it to work.

The classic symptom of this app not working are is an certificate error massage when you try to download your messages with the app:

“Sorry, Gmail for mobile will not work on your phone. Your phone doesn’t have the appropriate certificate to communicate with the server. Try accessing Gmail for mobile in your mobile browser at http://mail.google.com”

THE SOLUTION: Now, in some forums, i’ve found that downloading a verisign class 3 public certificate directly to your phone solved the problem for people, so here’s the link if you want to try that: https://www.verisign.com/cgi-bin/support/rootcert/getrootcert.cer

yes, I know it’s a long link, but it’s work the finger exercise if it gets the app to work for you. If this doesn’t work… Well, I have no idea how to fix your problem though i’m still looking and will bring you an update as soon as I find one. In the meantime, Please leave a comment if you have some ideas on how this problem can be fixed. Thank you!

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My T-Mobile Wing

So, after sticking with sprint for about 6 years, I finally grew tired of their crap; the random extra charges, bad service, crappy non-gsm phones (though they suddenly seem to have some good ones)…you get the idea. I made the decision to change change my sprint service on a kinda whim, as I was standing on the corner of 14th st and 6th ave. I walked across the street, walked into a store and said, “I’d like to change my service please. And while you’re at it, could I have a new phone.”

I started to looked through the stacks and spreads of phones on display and very soon fell in love with the look and feel of the TMO Wing. So I got it. Let me just say here that the Wing is probably the most amazing phone in North America right now (because we all know that the Japanese probably have a phone that flies and fits in your cuff links!). O.k, so maybe it kinda ties with the I-phone, but It’s got some pretty awesome features- check out netfxharmonics for a some reflections on the TMO Wing.

Anyway, I’m not going to reinvent the wheel– the above link will have almost EVERYTHING you want to know about the awesomeness of the Wing. I will instead be publishing some issues AND solutions I’ve encountered since I got my phone about a week and a half ago.

Issue 1 - Can’t get my e-mail on my T-mobile Wing.

The Wing, right out of the box, allows you to set up your e-mail and have it downloaded to the “desktop” of your phone, so that with just a touch of your fingertip or styllus, you can read all your e-mail! It supports pretty much any e-mail you use– from outlook to gmail and more! Now that’s all dandy init? Until you realize it doesn’t work, then it’s a pain in the butt! Basically what was happening was that though my e-mail was supposed to be all set up by following the VERY intuitive leads the phone gave (i.e. e-mail address field means enter your e-mail address, password field means enter PW etc.), I didn’t see any e-mail in my inbox on the phone! I tried re-setting my phone 3 times, setting up the e-mail account again 5 times and everything else in between. the I spent precious sleep hours online scouring the web for an answer, but many people had the same issues I did, and others had no problem at all when setting up from the box– there just was no answer…that is until this afternoon when I stumbled across a forum that gave me the answer. You can see the forum here if you’re interested–it’s the last post.

THE SOLUTION: When entering the “username” make sure it reads “recent:’username’” SO, a username like ‘john.smith’ would read “recent:john.smith”. That’s it! Please don’t ask me why or how, but I can tell you that that’s all it takes to stop you from pulling out your hair in frustration! If it doesn’t work and you figure something else out, please, PLEASE post it in the comments section and share with other readers. If on the other hand it does work, please feel free to stroke my ego for helping you out :). Good luck.